Okay, so I've read some articles that you DJ's have written and let me tell you they make a load of sense...anyways I haven't found an article yet to help me in my main problem. I have met this HB10. She goes to my school. Drop dead gorgeous. We went out a LONG time ago back in the 7th grade but just a few days ago we started hanging out again. I want to know how can I persuade thsi girl to think about me and her again? Is there an article on this or can someone give me some tips?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Getting this girl...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Brother, read the DJ BIBLE.
Top right corner.
Anything you want to know about this kind of situation.
And get it in your head that she's an hb9, there is no such thing as a perfect girl. But that's still pretty damn top-grade.
Keep us updated
Top right corner.
Anything you want to know about this kind of situation.
And get it in your head that she's an hb9, there is no such thing as a perfect girl. But that's still pretty damn top-grade.
Keep us updated
First it wouldn't be a bad idea to read the whole thing through. There will still be a lotta stuff you still won't understand but that's fine. If you ever have a question, just skim through it again and find an article that pertains to your situation. I also suggest that you go through with the boot camp too. It'll do wonders for your confidence and social skills. Good luck man.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i am but that will take atleast a week...i'm chillen with this girl this whole weekend...and let me add she grabbed my junk tonight (we were a lil tipsy but i feel she knew what she was going) but shes got a bf and i pretty much need to find a technic that will make her lunge at me (if possible haah)
but shes got a bf and i pretty much need to find a technic that will make her lunge at me (if possible haah)StrangeButTrue
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Get techniques and all that **** outta your head. Go read This thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56120
It's not technique, it's attitude, and lifestyle.
It's not technique, it's attitude, and lifestyle.
Strange hit the nail right on the head. Why change what you're doing for some techniques that worked for other guys? Sure, more than likely they will work for you too, but if things are going well so far, then why change your approach? Take it from me, the Don Juan Bible is just a big guide. Following things step by step is going to make you into a mindless robot. Have some sense and use your own intuition. Make up your own habits and techniques and I promise you you'll be much better off and more unpredictable.
Ohh well I def have a great attitude and i'm quite confident while talking to her its just that I think shes interested in both my friend and I and I wanted to know if threes anything in specific I could use to get her to be like let me get with toddC instead of his friend.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
ah the old 7-10 split (nifty name, eh? made it up myself).
i had this problem with a girl. just keep up the c&f and kino and she'll forget about that other guy. or at least the girl i digged did.
i had this problem with a girl. just keep up the c&f and kino and she'll forget about that other guy. or at least the girl i digged did.
i'm hoping only reason why i'd htink my friend has the upper hand is because her best friend is like texting him saying like hey we chillen tonigth rigth and hes liek yea she slike yea i'll get with lustgarten (my other other friend) and you can **** kim (the girl i want) but i think its a joke cause hes told her he wanted kim and she just hasn't done the shti shes done to me to him so i'm going to have to agree with you guys btw....what is c & f ?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nothing came up???
type it "c&f"
and in the bible...under attraction and aditude
type it "c&f"
and in the bible...under attraction and aditude