Okay, so I've read some articles that you DJ's have written and let me tell you they make a load of sense...anyways I haven't found an article yet to help me in my main problem. I have met this HB10. She goes to my school. Drop dead gorgeous. We went out a LONG time ago back in the 7th grade but just a few days ago we started hanging out again. I want to know how can I persuade thsi girl to think about me and her again? Is there an article on this or can someone give me some tips?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Getting this girl...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Brother, read the DJ BIBLE.
Top right corner.
Anything you want to know about this kind of situation.
And get it in your head that she's an hb9, there is no such thing as a perfect girl. But that's still pretty damn top-grade.
Keep us updated
Top right corner.
Anything you want to know about this kind of situation.
And get it in your head that she's an hb9, there is no such thing as a perfect girl. But that's still pretty damn top-grade.
Keep us updated
First it wouldn't be a bad idea to read the whole thing through. There will still be a lotta stuff you still won't understand but that's fine. If you ever have a question, just skim through it again and find an article that pertains to your situation. I also suggest that you go through with the boot camp too. It'll do wonders for your confidence and social skills. Good luck man.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i am but that will take atleast a week...i'm chillen with this girl this whole weekend...and let me add she grabbed my junk tonight (we were a lil tipsy but i feel she knew what she was going) but shes got a bf and i pretty much need to find a technic that will make her lunge at me (if possible haah)
but shes got a bf and i pretty much need to find a technic that will make her lunge at me (if possible haah)StrangeButTrue
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Get techniques and all that **** outta your head. Go read This thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56120
It's not technique, it's attitude, and lifestyle.
It's not technique, it's attitude, and lifestyle.
Strange hit the nail right on the head. Why change what you're doing for some techniques that worked for other guys? Sure, more than likely they will work for you too, but if things are going well so far, then why change your approach? Take it from me, the Don Juan Bible is just a big guide. Following things step by step is going to make you into a mindless robot. Have some sense and use your own intuition. Make up your own habits and techniques and I promise you you'll be much better off and more unpredictable.
Ohh well I def have a great attitude and i'm quite confident while talking to her its just that I think shes interested in both my friend and I and I wanted to know if threes anything in specific I could use to get her to be like let me get with toddC instead of his friend.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
ah the old 7-10 split (nifty name, eh? made it up myself).
i had this problem with a girl. just keep up the c&f and kino and she'll forget about that other guy. or at least the girl i digged did.
i had this problem with a girl. just keep up the c&f and kino and she'll forget about that other guy. or at least the girl i digged did.
i'm hoping only reason why i'd htink my friend has the upper hand is because her best friend is like texting him saying like hey we chillen tonigth rigth and hes liek yea she slike yea i'll get with lustgarten (my other other friend) and you can **** kim (the girl i want) but i think its a joke cause hes told her he wanted kim and she just hasn't done the shti shes done to me to him so i'm going to have to agree with you guys btw....what is c & f ?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nothing came up???
type it "c&f"
and in the bible...under attraction and aditude
type it "c&f"
and in the bible...under attraction and aditude