Someone told me there is a chat room on this website is that true? And I'm not quite sure what is available to me. so many articles lead to spending money on differnt ebooks. can someone help me out. the homepage isn't realy clear on what we get by joining here? does it cost anything? i've heard good things but whats the best way to utilize this website?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
getting the most out of so suave
- Thread starter sosilky
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
The best way to learn how to use this site is to find out how to use it on your own so you dont have to ask a such a myriad of damn stupid questions. Seriously think before you post. Read through the dj bibles; the pimping for dummies one is great. Then act on what you read or else youll never get anything out of this site.
you responded to my first post from over a month and a half ago......um thanxfertileTurtle said:The best way to learn how to use this site is to find out how to use it on your own so you dont have to ask a such a myriad of damn stupid questions. Seriously think before you post. Read through the dj bibles; the pimping for dummies one is great. Then act on what you read or else youll never get anything out of this site.
but since you brought it up anyone got an answer for this?Nighthawk said:A good tip is to read the most highly rated threads first. There's a way of doing this, but I can't remember how. Anyone?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
In the tips forum, theres a bar on top of all the posts. It has Thread/Thread starter, Last Post, Replies, and Views. One of the words you should be able to click is ratings. By clicking that, it rearranges all the posts from 5 stars to no stars.
wow! great thanx! I guess that turtle was good for something. you are the man defiancydefiancy said:In the tips forum, theres a bar on top of all the posts. It has Thread/Thread starter, Last Post, Replies, and Views. One of the words you should be able to click is ratings. By clicking that, it rearranges all the posts from 5 stars to no stars.
In the wise words of 4chan: LURK MORE.sosilky said:Someone told me there is a chat room on this website is that true? And I'm not quite sure what is available to me. so many articles lead to spending money on differnt ebooks. can someone help me out. the homepage isn't realy clear on what we get by joining here? does it cost anything? i've heard good things but whats the best way to utilize this website?
K..Jon55 said:In the wise words of 4chan: LURK MORE.