Someone told me there is a chat room on this website is that true? And I'm not quite sure what is available to me. so many articles lead to spending money on differnt ebooks. can someone help me out. the homepage isn't realy clear on what we get by joining here? does it cost anything? i've heard good things but whats the best way to utilize this website?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
getting the most out of so suave
- Thread starter sosilky
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
The best way to learn how to use this site is to find out how to use it on your own so you dont have to ask a such a myriad of damn stupid questions. Seriously think before you post. Read through the dj bibles; the pimping for dummies one is great. Then act on what you read or else youll never get anything out of this site.
you responded to my first post from over a month and a half ago......um thanxfertileTurtle said:The best way to learn how to use this site is to find out how to use it on your own so you dont have to ask a such a myriad of damn stupid questions. Seriously think before you post. Read through the dj bibles; the pimping for dummies one is great. Then act on what you read or else youll never get anything out of this site.
but since you brought it up anyone got an answer for this?Nighthawk said:A good tip is to read the most highly rated threads first. There's a way of doing this, but I can't remember how. Anyone?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
In the tips forum, theres a bar on top of all the posts. It has Thread/Thread starter, Last Post, Replies, and Views. One of the words you should be able to click is ratings. By clicking that, it rearranges all the posts from 5 stars to no stars.
wow! great thanx! I guess that turtle was good for something. you are the man defiancydefiancy said:In the tips forum, theres a bar on top of all the posts. It has Thread/Thread starter, Last Post, Replies, and Views. One of the words you should be able to click is ratings. By clicking that, it rearranges all the posts from 5 stars to no stars.
In the wise words of 4chan: LURK MORE.sosilky said:Someone told me there is a chat room on this website is that true? And I'm not quite sure what is available to me. so many articles lead to spending money on differnt ebooks. can someone help me out. the homepage isn't realy clear on what we get by joining here? does it cost anything? i've heard good things but whats the best way to utilize this website?
K..Jon55 said:In the wise words of 4chan: LURK MORE.