Someone told me there is a chat room on this website is that true? And I'm not quite sure what is available to me. so many articles lead to spending money on differnt ebooks. can someone help me out. the homepage isn't realy clear on what we get by joining here? does it cost anything? i've heard good things but whats the best way to utilize this website?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
getting the most out of so suave
- Thread starter sosilky
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
The best way to learn how to use this site is to find out how to use it on your own so you dont have to ask a such a myriad of damn stupid questions. Seriously think before you post. Read through the dj bibles; the pimping for dummies one is great. Then act on what you read or else youll never get anything out of this site.
you responded to my first post from over a month and a half ago......um thanxfertileTurtle said:The best way to learn how to use this site is to find out how to use it on your own so you dont have to ask a such a myriad of damn stupid questions. Seriously think before you post. Read through the dj bibles; the pimping for dummies one is great. Then act on what you read or else youll never get anything out of this site.
but since you brought it up anyone got an answer for this?Nighthawk said:A good tip is to read the most highly rated threads first. There's a way of doing this, but I can't remember how. Anyone?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
In the tips forum, theres a bar on top of all the posts. It has Thread/Thread starter, Last Post, Replies, and Views. One of the words you should be able to click is ratings. By clicking that, it rearranges all the posts from 5 stars to no stars.
wow! great thanx! I guess that turtle was good for something. you are the man defiancydefiancy said:In the tips forum, theres a bar on top of all the posts. It has Thread/Thread starter, Last Post, Replies, and Views. One of the words you should be able to click is ratings. By clicking that, it rearranges all the posts from 5 stars to no stars.
In the wise words of 4chan: LURK MORE.sosilky said:Someone told me there is a chat room on this website is that true? And I'm not quite sure what is available to me. so many articles lead to spending money on differnt ebooks. can someone help me out. the homepage isn't realy clear on what we get by joining here? does it cost anything? i've heard good things but whats the best way to utilize this website?
K..Jon55 said:In the wise words of 4chan: LURK MORE.