Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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sosilky

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Someone told me there is a chat room on this website is that true? And I'm not quite sure what is available to me. so many articles lead to spending money on differnt ebooks. can someone help me out. the homepage isn't realy clear on what we get by joining here? does it cost anything? i've heard good things but whats the best way to utilize this website?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A good tip is to read the most highly rated threads first. There's a way of doing this, but I can't remember how. Anyone?
 

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You posted the same thread in two different places. The first thread had a response to you.
 

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The best way to learn how to use this site is to find out how to use it on your own so you dont have to ask a such a myriad of damn stupid questions. Seriously think before you post. Read through the dj bibles; the pimping for dummies one is great. Then act on what you read or else youll never get anything out of this site.
 

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fertileTurtle said:
The best way to learn how to use this site is to find out how to use it on your own so you dont have to ask a such a myriad of damn stupid questions. Seriously think before you post. Read through the dj bibles; the pimping for dummies one is great. Then act on what you read or else youll never get anything out of this site.
you responded to my first post from over a month and a half ago......um thanx

Nighthawk said:
A good tip is to read the most highly rated threads first. There's a way of doing this, but I can't remember how. Anyone?
but since you brought it up anyone got an answer for this?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In the tips forum, theres a bar on top of all the posts. It has Thread/Thread starter, Last Post, Replies, and Views. One of the words you should be able to click is ratings. By clicking that, it rearranges all the posts from 5 stars to no stars.
 

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defiancy said:
In the tips forum, theres a bar on top of all the posts. It has Thread/Thread starter, Last Post, Replies, and Views. One of the words you should be able to click is ratings. By clicking that, it rearranges all the posts from 5 stars to no stars.
wow! great thanx! I guess that turtle was good for something. you are the man defiancy
 

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sosilky said:
Someone told me there is a chat room on this website is that true? And I'm not quite sure what is available to me. so many articles lead to spending money on differnt ebooks. can someone help me out. the homepage isn't realy clear on what we get by joining here? does it cost anything? i've heard good things but whats the best way to utilize this website?
In the wise words of 4chan: LURK MORE.
 
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