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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting #'s, and what they mean

Wiesman44

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So now that I'm newly single, i've begun my dj'ing again. I read up the dj bible and practiced some **** for the past few days before i hit up a party last night. Did an okay job. Still have a lot of work to do. Talked to a few girls last night, didnt ask for their numbers except for this one:

We talked very very briefly, but i met her once at a party back from my hometown, and when she saw me at the party she remembered who i was (i wasnt sure who she was at first, lol). So I talked to her up briefly, w/o c & f b/c i was catching up on how she had been recently and how UConn was. So all in all, i said she should come to our lakehouse parties next time we have 'em, so i asked for her #. Surprisngly enough, she asked me for mine also. Since I'm a complete noob in this dj ****, does that mean a damn thing ? She does know my housemates girlfriend somewhat well, so thats why she might have wanted my # as well. But i did notice a hint of interest the first time i met her. Is it normal for girls to just give u their number like that ? i'm lost, and know nothing about this b/c i'm recenlty single.
 

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DJDamage

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Yes its normal if they ask for your number its a good sign. It shows a high intrest, now its up to you to increase it.

Make sure you are the one that calls her up and set up a date. Just make sure its a date where you will have fun, and keep things light, but cotinue to be C&F and kino her. See how it goes.
 
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