"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting #'s, and what they mean

Wiesman44

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So now that I'm newly single, i've begun my dj'ing again. I read up the dj bible and practiced some **** for the past few days before i hit up a party last night. Did an okay job. Still have a lot of work to do. Talked to a few girls last night, didnt ask for their numbers except for this one:

We talked very very briefly, but i met her once at a party back from my hometown, and when she saw me at the party she remembered who i was (i wasnt sure who she was at first, lol). So I talked to her up briefly, w/o c & f b/c i was catching up on how she had been recently and how UConn was. So all in all, i said she should come to our lakehouse parties next time we have 'em, so i asked for her #. Surprisngly enough, she asked me for mine also. Since I'm a complete noob in this dj ****, does that mean a damn thing ? She does know my housemates girlfriend somewhat well, so thats why she might have wanted my # as well. But i did notice a hint of interest the first time i met her. Is it normal for girls to just give u their number like that ? i'm lost, and know nothing about this b/c i'm recenlty single.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJDamage

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Yes its normal if they ask for your number its a good sign. It shows a high intrest, now its up to you to increase it.

Make sure you are the one that calls her up and set up a date. Just make sure its a date where you will have fun, and keep things light, but cotinue to be C&F and kino her. See how it goes.
 
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