"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Getting #'s, and what they mean

Wiesman44

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 2, 2004
Messages
1,341
Reaction score
14
So now that I'm newly single, i've begun my dj'ing again. I read up the dj bible and practiced some **** for the past few days before i hit up a party last night. Did an okay job. Still have a lot of work to do. Talked to a few girls last night, didnt ask for their numbers except for this one:

We talked very very briefly, but i met her once at a party back from my hometown, and when she saw me at the party she remembered who i was (i wasnt sure who she was at first, lol). So I talked to her up briefly, w/o c & f b/c i was catching up on how she had been recently and how UConn was. So all in all, i said she should come to our lakehouse parties next time we have 'em, so i asked for her #. Surprisngly enough, she asked me for mine also. Since I'm a complete noob in this dj ****, does that mean a damn thing ? She does know my housemates girlfriend somewhat well, so thats why she might have wanted my # as well. But i did notice a hint of interest the first time i met her. Is it normal for girls to just give u their number like that ? i'm lost, and know nothing about this b/c i'm recenlty single.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

DJDamage

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2004
Messages
5,657
Reaction score
104
Location
Canada
Yes its normal if they ask for your number its a good sign. It shows a high intrest, now its up to you to increase it.

Make sure you are the one that calls her up and set up a date. Just make sure its a date where you will have fun, and keep things light, but cotinue to be C&F and kino her. See how it goes.
 
Top