"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting #'s, and what they mean

Wiesman44

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So now that I'm newly single, i've begun my dj'ing again. I read up the dj bible and practiced some **** for the past few days before i hit up a party last night. Did an okay job. Still have a lot of work to do. Talked to a few girls last night, didnt ask for their numbers except for this one:

We talked very very briefly, but i met her once at a party back from my hometown, and when she saw me at the party she remembered who i was (i wasnt sure who she was at first, lol). So I talked to her up briefly, w/o c & f b/c i was catching up on how she had been recently and how UConn was. So all in all, i said she should come to our lakehouse parties next time we have 'em, so i asked for her #. Surprisngly enough, she asked me for mine also. Since I'm a complete noob in this dj ****, does that mean a damn thing ? She does know my housemates girlfriend somewhat well, so thats why she might have wanted my # as well. But i did notice a hint of interest the first time i met her. Is it normal for girls to just give u their number like that ? i'm lost, and know nothing about this b/c i'm recenlty single.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJDamage

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Yes its normal if they ask for your number its a good sign. It shows a high intrest, now its up to you to increase it.

Make sure you are the one that calls her up and set up a date. Just make sure its a date where you will have fun, and keep things light, but cotinue to be C&F and kino her. See how it goes.
 
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