"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting old sucks, even for TLM.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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origin138

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The worst is seeing the gray start coming in. At first it's just 1 or 2, then 10, then it happens on both sides, then you grow a goatee/beard, and see it there too. Good times :)
 

maverick72

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Quit being p*ssies about being an aging man. Men shouldn't care about their age. Only women should worry.

I welcome old age. I feel manlier. My gray hair started coming in when I was 32 and I look better with gray hair.
If you have warm skin tones with brown eyes you won't look as good with gray hair. If you have cool skin tones with blue eyes you look better with gray hair.

It is sort of like a bald guy. Some look better bald and others do not.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Ladies Man,
Not so bad really....There are just soo many Women there...I have more fun now than 50 years ago,more nookie than 20 years ago...Look I am not saying I wouldn't like to be in your shoes...but it is not all bad,and there are compensating factors....I have a Mechanic mate he is 57 and has Prostate Cancer...no lunging with the Pork Sword for him.....Talked about it one day over a beer or five...he is on Cortisone and female hormones....has no desires at all...he says he is just so much at peace with life...interesting.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheLadiesMan

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Still love to ****, love my pee pee. Get it all the time, except now they are more my age. Youngest is 30, oldest is 47.

I played a pickup game of football, got broke! ...felt that hit for freakn days.
Back in the day, that **** was gone by the next down.
So yeah, it sucks the day I can't play football no more....

Man, that hit was text book, and it felt like a mack truck hit me.
 

Rubirosa

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You have a choice: You can age fast or you can age slow. To age slow takes lots of work and sacrafice. No drinking or smoking, watching the diet, constant exercise.
I can honestly say that at 46, I look better than I ever did before, and that it's very easy for me to pull pu##y.
There are some drawbacks.
I do full contact Karate. I spar with some kid and nail him in the ribs, he hurts for two days. He nails me in the ribs, I hurt for two weeks.
 

Von_S

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The answer: Yoga

FULL of trim women, and you get into shape.
 
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