TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I hope I die before I get old.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Getting old sucks, even for TLM.
- Thread starter TheLadiesMan
- Start date
I hope I die before I get old.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
maverick72
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 25, 2011
- Messages
- 78
- Reaction score
- 6
I agree with you there. But why in your case?
maverick72
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 25, 2011
- Messages
- 78
- Reaction score
- 6
Quit being p*ssies about being an aging man. Men shouldn't care about their age. Only women should worry.
I welcome old age. I feel manlier. My gray hair started coming in when I was 32 and I look better with gray hair.
If you have warm skin tones with brown eyes you won't look as good with gray hair. If you have cool skin tones with blue eyes you look better with gray hair.
It is sort of like a bald guy. Some look better bald and others do not.
I welcome old age. I feel manlier. My gray hair started coming in when I was 32 and I look better with gray hair.
If you have warm skin tones with brown eyes you won't look as good with gray hair. If you have cool skin tones with blue eyes you look better with gray hair.
It is sort of like a bald guy. Some look better bald and others do not.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Ladies Man,
Not so bad really....There are just soo many Women there...I have more fun now than 50 years ago,more nookie than 20 years ago...Look I am not saying I wouldn't like to be in your shoes...but it is not all bad,and there are compensating factors....I have a Mechanic mate he is 57 and has Prostate Cancer...no lunging with the Pork Sword for him.....Talked about it one day over a beer or five...he is on Cortisone and female hormones....has no desires at all...he says he is just so much at peace with life...interesting.
Not so bad really....There are just soo many Women there...I have more fun now than 50 years ago,more nookie than 20 years ago...Look I am not saying I wouldn't like to be in your shoes...but it is not all bad,and there are compensating factors....I have a Mechanic mate he is 57 and has Prostate Cancer...no lunging with the Pork Sword for him.....Talked about it one day over a beer or five...he is on Cortisone and female hormones....has no desires at all...he says he is just so much at peace with life...interesting.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Still love to ****, love my pee pee. Get it all the time, except now they are more my age. Youngest is 30, oldest is 47.
I played a pickup game of football, got broke! ...felt that hit for freakn days.
Back in the day, that **** was gone by the next down.
So yeah, it sucks the day I can't play football no more....
Man, that hit was text book, and it felt like a mack truck hit me.
I played a pickup game of football, got broke! ...felt that hit for freakn days.
Back in the day, that **** was gone by the next down.
So yeah, it sucks the day I can't play football no more....
Man, that hit was text book, and it felt like a mack truck hit me.
You have a choice: You can age fast or you can age slow. To age slow takes lots of work and sacrafice. No drinking or smoking, watching the diet, constant exercise.
I can honestly say that at 46, I look better than I ever did before, and that it's very easy for me to pull pu##y.
There are some drawbacks.
I do full contact Karate. I spar with some kid and nail him in the ribs, he hurts for two days. He nails me in the ribs, I hurt for two weeks.
I can honestly say that at 46, I look better than I ever did before, and that it's very easy for me to pull pu##y.
There are some drawbacks.
I do full contact Karate. I spar with some kid and nail him in the ribs, he hurts for two days. He nails me in the ribs, I hurt for two weeks.