TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I hope I die before I get old.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Getting old sucks, even for TLM.
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I hope I die before I get old.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
maverick72
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I agree with you there. But why in your case?
maverick72
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Quit being p*ssies about being an aging man. Men shouldn't care about their age. Only women should worry.
I welcome old age. I feel manlier. My gray hair started coming in when I was 32 and I look better with gray hair.
If you have warm skin tones with brown eyes you won't look as good with gray hair. If you have cool skin tones with blue eyes you look better with gray hair.
It is sort of like a bald guy. Some look better bald and others do not.
I welcome old age. I feel manlier. My gray hair started coming in when I was 32 and I look better with gray hair.
If you have warm skin tones with brown eyes you won't look as good with gray hair. If you have cool skin tones with blue eyes you look better with gray hair.
It is sort of like a bald guy. Some look better bald and others do not.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Ladies Man,
Not so bad really....There are just soo many Women there...I have more fun now than 50 years ago,more nookie than 20 years ago...Look I am not saying I wouldn't like to be in your shoes...but it is not all bad,and there are compensating factors....I have a Mechanic mate he is 57 and has Prostate Cancer...no lunging with the Pork Sword for him.....Talked about it one day over a beer or five...he is on Cortisone and female hormones....has no desires at all...he says he is just so much at peace with life...interesting.
Not so bad really....There are just soo many Women there...I have more fun now than 50 years ago,more nookie than 20 years ago...Look I am not saying I wouldn't like to be in your shoes...but it is not all bad,and there are compensating factors....I have a Mechanic mate he is 57 and has Prostate Cancer...no lunging with the Pork Sword for him.....Talked about it one day over a beer or five...he is on Cortisone and female hormones....has no desires at all...he says he is just so much at peace with life...interesting.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Still love to ****, love my pee pee. Get it all the time, except now they are more my age. Youngest is 30, oldest is 47.
I played a pickup game of football, got broke! ...felt that hit for freakn days.
Back in the day, that **** was gone by the next down.
So yeah, it sucks the day I can't play football no more....
Man, that hit was text book, and it felt like a mack truck hit me.
I played a pickup game of football, got broke! ...felt that hit for freakn days.
Back in the day, that **** was gone by the next down.
So yeah, it sucks the day I can't play football no more....
Man, that hit was text book, and it felt like a mack truck hit me.
You have a choice: You can age fast or you can age slow. To age slow takes lots of work and sacrafice. No drinking or smoking, watching the diet, constant exercise.
I can honestly say that at 46, I look better than I ever did before, and that it's very easy for me to pull pu##y.
There are some drawbacks.
I do full contact Karate. I spar with some kid and nail him in the ribs, he hurts for two days. He nails me in the ribs, I hurt for two weeks.
I can honestly say that at 46, I look better than I ever did before, and that it's very easy for me to pull pu##y.
There are some drawbacks.
I do full contact Karate. I spar with some kid and nail him in the ribs, he hurts for two days. He nails me in the ribs, I hurt for two weeks.