I have been improving my game in clubs. I used to stand against the wall but now I dance whenever and start grinding random girls with no problems. But tomorrow I want to get some numbers. Do you talk to them while your grinding them what do you say?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Getting numbers in clubs
- Thread starter rjones
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Heyjose25points
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the good ol' days of grinding, how i use to suck at first but get much better over time. Especially feels great when the chick ur grinding with looks behind her with a curious look, and smiles....amazing feeling plus when they press ur ass on ur crotch, god damn. Love those times, dont really do it anymore...but I won't hesitate to grind with a chick again as I'm gaining more and more confidence.
Great mindset bro, I bet its a numbers game. Who cares if the girl doesn't like u grindin on her, its still fun to do. It doesn't matter that u got rejected at all, what really matters is u got to grind with 10 chicks.
Great mindset bro, I bet its a numbers game. Who cares if the girl doesn't like u grindin on her, its still fun to do. It doesn't matter that u got rejected at all, what really matters is u got to grind with 10 chicks.
LA_Chico
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grind on me- pretty ricky bro
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
bw;"hey what's your name?"rjones said:Do you talk to them while your grinding them what do you say?
hb7+;"(name)"
bw;"Ok nice to meet you (name),I'm blinkwatt. So what brings this cutie and her friends to the club this evening?"
Just start a conversation with her from there,you would be amazed how fast time flys.
The Monolith
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I get rejected about 70% of the time, but it really just depends where you go. Someplaces where the girls are really stuck up, I don't manage to get with any, but if it's a friendly atmosphere I can get with girls way out my league. It's just a matter of persistence and luck. As a rule I don't go for the number close unless I've kissed her first and then they always give the number. I'm completely desensitized to rejection, I just laugh it off.