I have been improving my game in clubs. I used to stand against the wall but now I dance whenever and start grinding random girls with no problems. But tomorrow I want to get some numbers. Do you talk to them while your grinding them what do you say?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Getting numbers in clubs
- Thread starter rjones
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Heyjose25points
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the good ol' days of grinding, how i use to suck at first but get much better over time. Especially feels great when the chick ur grinding with looks behind her with a curious look, and smiles....amazing feeling plus when they press ur ass on ur crotch, god damn. Love those times, dont really do it anymore...but I won't hesitate to grind with a chick again as I'm gaining more and more confidence.
Great mindset bro, I bet its a numbers game. Who cares if the girl doesn't like u grindin on her, its still fun to do. It doesn't matter that u got rejected at all, what really matters is u got to grind with 10 chicks.
Great mindset bro, I bet its a numbers game. Who cares if the girl doesn't like u grindin on her, its still fun to do. It doesn't matter that u got rejected at all, what really matters is u got to grind with 10 chicks.
LA_Chico
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grind on me- pretty ricky bro
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
bw;"hey what's your name?"rjones said:Do you talk to them while your grinding them what do you say?
hb7+;"(name)"
bw;"Ok nice to meet you (name),I'm blinkwatt. So what brings this cutie and her friends to the club this evening?"
Just start a conversation with her from there,you would be amazed how fast time flys.
The Monolith
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I get rejected about 70% of the time, but it really just depends where you go. Someplaces where the girls are really stuck up, I don't manage to get with any, but if it's a friendly atmosphere I can get with girls way out my league. It's just a matter of persistence and luck. As a rule I don't go for the number close unless I've kissed her first and then they always give the number. I'm completely desensitized to rejection, I just laugh it off.