I have been improving my game in clubs. I used to stand against the wall but now I dance whenever and start grinding random girls with no problems. But tomorrow I want to get some numbers. Do you talk to them while your grinding them what do you say?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Getting numbers in clubs
- Thread starter rjones
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Heyjose25points
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the good ol' days of grinding, how i use to suck at first but get much better over time. Especially feels great when the chick ur grinding with looks behind her with a curious look, and smiles....amazing feeling plus when they press ur ass on ur crotch, god damn. Love those times, dont really do it anymore...but I won't hesitate to grind with a chick again as I'm gaining more and more confidence.
Great mindset bro, I bet its a numbers game. Who cares if the girl doesn't like u grindin on her, its still fun to do. It doesn't matter that u got rejected at all, what really matters is u got to grind with 10 chicks.
Great mindset bro, I bet its a numbers game. Who cares if the girl doesn't like u grindin on her, its still fun to do. It doesn't matter that u got rejected at all, what really matters is u got to grind with 10 chicks.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
grind on me- pretty ricky bro
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
bw;"hey what's your name?"rjones said:Do you talk to them while your grinding them what do you say?
hb7+;"(name)"
bw;"Ok nice to meet you (name),I'm blinkwatt. So what brings this cutie and her friends to the club this evening?"
Just start a conversation with her from there,you would be amazed how fast time flys.
The Monolith
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I get rejected about 70% of the time, but it really just depends where you go. Someplaces where the girls are really stuck up, I don't manage to get with any, but if it's a friendly atmosphere I can get with girls way out my league. It's just a matter of persistence and luck. As a rule I don't go for the number close unless I've kissed her first and then they always give the number. I'm completely desensitized to rejection, I just laugh it off.