I have been improving my game in clubs. I used to stand against the wall but now I dance whenever and start grinding random girls with no problems. But tomorrow I want to get some numbers. Do you talk to them while your grinding them what do you say?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Getting numbers in clubs
- Thread starter rjones
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Heyjose25points
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the good ol' days of grinding, how i use to suck at first but get much better over time. Especially feels great when the chick ur grinding with looks behind her with a curious look, and smiles....amazing feeling plus when they press ur ass on ur crotch, god damn. Love those times, dont really do it anymore...but I won't hesitate to grind with a chick again as I'm gaining more and more confidence.
Great mindset bro, I bet its a numbers game. Who cares if the girl doesn't like u grindin on her, its still fun to do. It doesn't matter that u got rejected at all, what really matters is u got to grind with 10 chicks.
Great mindset bro, I bet its a numbers game. Who cares if the girl doesn't like u grindin on her, its still fun to do. It doesn't matter that u got rejected at all, what really matters is u got to grind with 10 chicks.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
grind on me- pretty ricky bro
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
bw;"hey what's your name?"rjones said:Do you talk to them while your grinding them what do you say?
hb7+;"(name)"
bw;"Ok nice to meet you (name),I'm blinkwatt. So what brings this cutie and her friends to the club this evening?"
Just start a conversation with her from there,you would be amazed how fast time flys.
The Monolith
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I get rejected about 70% of the time, but it really just depends where you go. Someplaces where the girls are really stuck up, I don't manage to get with any, but if it's a friendly atmosphere I can get with girls way out my league. It's just a matter of persistence and luck. As a rule I don't go for the number close unless I've kissed her first and then they always give the number. I'm completely desensitized to rejection, I just laugh it off.