"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting numbers from women you aren't into

For_F

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If you guys get numbers from women who you really can not be bothered any effort in to get laid do you still follow the steps in getting a meet up and lay wait a few days, call and set up themeeting.

I don't have plans for tomorrow night and got a couple numbers today - would like to fvck one of them tomorrow or atleast get some action. Is it a no go to ring the day after and organise a meet up the night after you got their number?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vidrio

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It depends on how much higher value you are than them. If you're waaaay more high value, then they should jump at the chance to be with you even if you call the next day. If they consider themselves closer to you in value, standard rules will apply.
 

For_F

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They didn't appear to be low value. Seemed like your average hb 6.5. I guess I'll wait until early next week.
 

Uncharted

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I've been in a similar situation where I just clicked with a chick who wasn't that good looking - HB5/6 but she was thin. She was kind of into me but I wasn't that into her. I basically just used her as a backup to when other girls were busy or I was taking a break from seeing them.

I told her straight out that I did not want a LTR though. I mean, as long as you are enjoying yourself what's the problem? A HB9 chick would probably treat me the same way if she wasn't interested but just wanted some fun.
 
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