"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting numbers from women you aren't into

For_F

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If you guys get numbers from women who you really can not be bothered any effort in to get laid do you still follow the steps in getting a meet up and lay wait a few days, call and set up themeeting.

I don't have plans for tomorrow night and got a couple numbers today - would like to fvck one of them tomorrow or atleast get some action. Is it a no go to ring the day after and organise a meet up the night after you got their number?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vidrio

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It depends on how much higher value you are than them. If you're waaaay more high value, then they should jump at the chance to be with you even if you call the next day. If they consider themselves closer to you in value, standard rules will apply.
 

For_F

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They didn't appear to be low value. Seemed like your average hb 6.5. I guess I'll wait until early next week.
 

Uncharted

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I've been in a similar situation where I just clicked with a chick who wasn't that good looking - HB5/6 but she was thin. She was kind of into me but I wasn't that into her. I basically just used her as a backup to when other girls were busy or I was taking a break from seeing them.

I told her straight out that I did not want a LTR though. I mean, as long as you are enjoying yourself what's the problem? A HB9 chick would probably treat me the same way if she wasn't interested but just wanted some fun.
 
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