"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting numbers from women you aren't into

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For_F

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If you guys get numbers from women who you really can not be bothered any effort in to get laid do you still follow the steps in getting a meet up and lay wait a few days, call and set up themeeting.

I don't have plans for tomorrow night and got a couple numbers today - would like to fvck one of them tomorrow or atleast get some action. Is it a no go to ring the day after and organise a meet up the night after you got their number?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It depends on how much higher value you are than them. If you're waaaay more high value, then they should jump at the chance to be with you even if you call the next day. If they consider themselves closer to you in value, standard rules will apply.
 
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They didn't appear to be low value. Seemed like your average hb 6.5. I guess I'll wait until early next week.
 
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I've been in a similar situation where I just clicked with a chick who wasn't that good looking - HB5/6 but she was thin. She was kind of into me but I wasn't that into her. I basically just used her as a backup to when other girls were busy or I was taking a break from seeing them.

I told her straight out that I did not want a LTR though. I mean, as long as you are enjoying yourself what's the problem? A HB9 chick would probably treat me the same way if she wasn't interested but just wanted some fun.
 
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