"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting numbers from women you aren't into

For_F

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If you guys get numbers from women who you really can not be bothered any effort in to get laid do you still follow the steps in getting a meet up and lay wait a few days, call and set up themeeting.

I don't have plans for tomorrow night and got a couple numbers today - would like to fvck one of them tomorrow or atleast get some action. Is it a no go to ring the day after and organise a meet up the night after you got their number?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vidrio

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It depends on how much higher value you are than them. If you're waaaay more high value, then they should jump at the chance to be with you even if you call the next day. If they consider themselves closer to you in value, standard rules will apply.
 

For_F

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They didn't appear to be low value. Seemed like your average hb 6.5. I guess I'll wait until early next week.
 

Uncharted

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I've been in a similar situation where I just clicked with a chick who wasn't that good looking - HB5/6 but she was thin. She was kind of into me but I wasn't that into her. I basically just used her as a backup to when other girls were busy or I was taking a break from seeing them.

I told her straight out that I did not want a LTR though. I mean, as long as you are enjoying yourself what's the problem? A HB9 chick would probably treat me the same way if she wasn't interested but just wanted some fun.
 
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