"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting my mind off sex.

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Man, I really do need to get my mind off sex and stop masturbating, before I can really improve. I'm constantly horny and when I try to get other things done, I just start to think about sex, load up a site and start masturbating. It's like, I'll be writing music or something and I'll get bored and then I remember that girl with the tight ass from school today and there I go. My problem is, is that I think about sex WAAAAY to much and it's getting in the way of my life. Sure, thinking about sex a little bit here and there is good, but when you think about it all the time like me and just can't get it out of your head, it becomes dangerous. Masturbating feels good and all, but honestly, it takes up a lot of time and energy, makes me tired and bored and gives me an uncomfortable feeling in my crotch afterwords.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you're 15, it's normal.

just try not to use porn, it could lead into addiction.
 
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Originally posted by hck332
you're 15, it's normal.

just try not to use porn, it could lead into addiction.
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I think if anything I'm already addicted. I've been masturbating almost everyday since I taught myself how to do it, when I was 13. Hell, even at band camp, I masturbated when my roommates were asleep.
 
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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
The girls that you know from school are doing the same thing as you. Get a girlfriend.
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Haha, seriously? Well, in that case, maybe it's not so weird after all. Winter Formal is coming up and I'm looking for someone to take me and even have a few girls in mind, but a lot times when I'm talking to girls, I run out of things to say, if I can't initiate good small talk to a girl, how am I going to ask her out?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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