"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting my mind off sex.

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Man, I really do need to get my mind off sex and stop masturbating, before I can really improve. I'm constantly horny and when I try to get other things done, I just start to think about sex, load up a site and start masturbating. It's like, I'll be writing music or something and I'll get bored and then I remember that girl with the tight ass from school today and there I go. My problem is, is that I think about sex WAAAAY to much and it's getting in the way of my life. Sure, thinking about sex a little bit here and there is good, but when you think about it all the time like me and just can't get it out of your head, it becomes dangerous. Masturbating feels good and all, but honestly, it takes up a lot of time and energy, makes me tired and bored and gives me an uncomfortable feeling in my crotch afterwords.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you're 15, it's normal.

just try not to use porn, it could lead into addiction.
 

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Originally posted by hck332
you're 15, it's normal.

just try not to use porn, it could lead into addiction.
I think if anything I'm already addicted. I've been masturbating almost everyday since I taught myself how to do it, when I was 13. Hell, even at band camp, I masturbated when my roommates were asleep.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
The girls that you know from school are doing the same thing as you. Get a girlfriend.
Haha, seriously? Well, in that case, maybe it's not so weird after all. Winter Formal is coming up and I'm looking for someone to take me and even have a few girls in mind, but a lot times when I'm talking to girls, I run out of things to say, if I can't initiate good small talk to a girl, how am I going to ask her out?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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