"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting my mind off sex.

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Man, I really do need to get my mind off sex and stop masturbating, before I can really improve. I'm constantly horny and when I try to get other things done, I just start to think about sex, load up a site and start masturbating. It's like, I'll be writing music or something and I'll get bored and then I remember that girl with the tight ass from school today and there I go. My problem is, is that I think about sex WAAAAY to much and it's getting in the way of my life. Sure, thinking about sex a little bit here and there is good, but when you think about it all the time like me and just can't get it out of your head, it becomes dangerous. Masturbating feels good and all, but honestly, it takes up a lot of time and energy, makes me tired and bored and gives me an uncomfortable feeling in my crotch afterwords.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you're 15, it's normal.

just try not to use porn, it could lead into addiction.
 
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Originally posted by hck332
you're 15, it's normal.

just try not to use porn, it could lead into addiction.
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I think if anything I'm already addicted. I've been masturbating almost everyday since I taught myself how to do it, when I was 13. Hell, even at band camp, I masturbated when my roommates were asleep.
 
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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
The girls that you know from school are doing the same thing as you. Get a girlfriend.
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Haha, seriously? Well, in that case, maybe it's not so weird after all. Winter Formal is coming up and I'm looking for someone to take me and even have a few girls in mind, but a lot times when I'm talking to girls, I run out of things to say, if I can't initiate good small talk to a girl, how am I going to ask her out?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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