I'm hitting on a girl, and I want her number so I can call her and we can set up a date or something at xmas break. I've got her MSN, but that's not a good idea to aks her out over msn. So what/when should I tell her? Any links or some quick answers?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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quick answers? dont be needy. (period!)
go read pooks book, its like 270 pages, but once your done, you'll have a totally different perspective.
good luck.
go read pooks book, its like 270 pages, but once your done, you'll have a totally different perspective.
good luck.
happymeal88
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Just say "Hey, I am heading out but let me have your digits so I can call you sometime."
Presto. Number.
Then wait until you feel good about it and give her a call and say "Hey, this saturday I was thinking that we could go do X. I'm thinking I'll pick you up at 7." If she is interested she will say ok or suggest an alternative.
Presto. Date.
Not that hard buddy, their aren't any magic tricks. You just have to man up and ask the question. I know it is tough putting yourself out there for rejection, but even if she rejects you it doesn't mean anything, she is one fish in a pond of many hundreds. And most of all, you have to remember it is her loss, not yours!
Presto. Number.
Then wait until you feel good about it and give her a call and say "Hey, this saturday I was thinking that we could go do X. I'm thinking I'll pick you up at 7." If she is interested she will say ok or suggest an alternative.
Presto. Date.
Not that hard buddy, their aren't any magic tricks. You just have to man up and ask the question. I know it is tough putting yourself out there for rejection, but even if she rejects you it doesn't mean anything, she is one fish in a pond of many hundreds. And most of all, you have to remember it is her loss, not yours!
Dayum itz jee
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Why's MSN not good? Whats wrong with that?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I (as well as many others, I'm sure) have successfully hooked up with girls by using MSN plenty of times, bro. In the early stages, I actually like it better, since it's very unassuming, and also you know she's most likely just sitting at home when she's on MSN.I've got her MSN, but that's not a good idea to aks her out over msn.
Good luck, I've recently come off of # close anxiety - not approach anxiety but closing anxiety because I had a fear of risking where I currently was in relation to target. Once you close it you'll realize it's very very very simple and the pressure will subside immensly.
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just say maybe we can hang out on break, so you should give me your number. say that.