"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Getting girls to pay for everything
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
this thread is pretty funny but unlike all the other guys here i'm in total support of the OP, however the first couple of posters got it right:
1. she doesn't like you enough to buy you free **** all the time(read: she doesn't like you as much as you think she does or think she should)
2. it woul be dumb as hell to dump a girl just because she won't give you free stuff, just be happy she's not actively trying to cost you money and is perfectly okay with a 50/50 split, i'd caution against pushing too hard on this unless you're willing to lose her or otherwise cause problems in the pursuit of greed lol.
aside from that keep on trucking, i can admire your desire for a girl who you can actively profit from dating, that sounds like a dream come true, unfortunately the idea is mostly fantasy not quite based in reality(unless she's particularly generous, particularly devoted to pleasing you or loose with her money)
1. she doesn't like you enough to buy you free **** all the time(read: she doesn't like you as much as you think she does or think she should)
2. it woul be dumb as hell to dump a girl just because she won't give you free stuff, just be happy she's not actively trying to cost you money and is perfectly okay with a 50/50 split, i'd caution against pushing too hard on this unless you're willing to lose her or otherwise cause problems in the pursuit of greed lol.
aside from that keep on trucking, i can admire your desire for a girl who you can actively profit from dating, that sounds like a dream come true, unfortunately the idea is mostly fantasy not quite based in reality(unless she's particularly generous, particularly devoted to pleasing you or loose with her money)
DiegoSantori
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Nowadays, people call you a hater for everything smh. Just because i'm giving my opinion, doesn't mean that I'm hating.
marmel75
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No, it's called having decorum and tact something clearly lacking in today's generation. It's called leading. It's called I'm a grown man and I don't go around looking for free handouts. It's a mindset and an attitude. Its taking pride in what it means to be a man. That is clearly lost on today's generation.
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_sideways_
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Tell her they are cutting your hours at work and would love to go for a hike and coffee instead of bars and restaurants.
If gaining money is what you want.
See her reaction.
If gaining money is what you want.
See her reaction.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.