"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Getting girls to pay for everything
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
this thread is pretty funny but unlike all the other guys here i'm in total support of the OP, however the first couple of posters got it right:
1. she doesn't like you enough to buy you free **** all the time(read: she doesn't like you as much as you think she does or think she should)
2. it woul be dumb as hell to dump a girl just because she won't give you free stuff, just be happy she's not actively trying to cost you money and is perfectly okay with a 50/50 split, i'd caution against pushing too hard on this unless you're willing to lose her or otherwise cause problems in the pursuit of greed lol.
aside from that keep on trucking, i can admire your desire for a girl who you can actively profit from dating, that sounds like a dream come true, unfortunately the idea is mostly fantasy not quite based in reality(unless she's particularly generous, particularly devoted to pleasing you or loose with her money)
1. she doesn't like you enough to buy you free **** all the time(read: she doesn't like you as much as you think she does or think she should)
2. it woul be dumb as hell to dump a girl just because she won't give you free stuff, just be happy she's not actively trying to cost you money and is perfectly okay with a 50/50 split, i'd caution against pushing too hard on this unless you're willing to lose her or otherwise cause problems in the pursuit of greed lol.
aside from that keep on trucking, i can admire your desire for a girl who you can actively profit from dating, that sounds like a dream come true, unfortunately the idea is mostly fantasy not quite based in reality(unless she's particularly generous, particularly devoted to pleasing you or loose with her money)
DiegoSantori
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Nowadays, people call you a hater for everything smh. Just because i'm giving my opinion, doesn't mean that I'm hating.
marmel75
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No, it's called having decorum and tact something clearly lacking in today's generation. It's called leading. It's called I'm a grown man and I don't go around looking for free handouts. It's a mindset and an attitude. Its taking pride in what it means to be a man. That is clearly lost on today's generation.
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_sideways_
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Tell her they are cutting your hours at work and would love to go for a hike and coffee instead of bars and restaurants.
If gaining money is what you want.
See her reaction.
If gaining money is what you want.
See her reaction.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.