"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Getting girls to pay for everything
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
this thread is pretty funny but unlike all the other guys here i'm in total support of the OP, however the first couple of posters got it right:
1. she doesn't like you enough to buy you free **** all the time(read: she doesn't like you as much as you think she does or think she should)
2. it woul be dumb as hell to dump a girl just because she won't give you free stuff, just be happy she's not actively trying to cost you money and is perfectly okay with a 50/50 split, i'd caution against pushing too hard on this unless you're willing to lose her or otherwise cause problems in the pursuit of greed lol.
aside from that keep on trucking, i can admire your desire for a girl who you can actively profit from dating, that sounds like a dream come true, unfortunately the idea is mostly fantasy not quite based in reality(unless she's particularly generous, particularly devoted to pleasing you or loose with her money)
1. she doesn't like you enough to buy you free **** all the time(read: she doesn't like you as much as you think she does or think she should)
2. it woul be dumb as hell to dump a girl just because she won't give you free stuff, just be happy she's not actively trying to cost you money and is perfectly okay with a 50/50 split, i'd caution against pushing too hard on this unless you're willing to lose her or otherwise cause problems in the pursuit of greed lol.
aside from that keep on trucking, i can admire your desire for a girl who you can actively profit from dating, that sounds like a dream come true, unfortunately the idea is mostly fantasy not quite based in reality(unless she's particularly generous, particularly devoted to pleasing you or loose with her money)
DiegoSantori
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Nowadays, people call you a hater for everything smh. Just because i'm giving my opinion, doesn't mean that I'm hating.
marmel75
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No, it's called having decorum and tact something clearly lacking in today's generation. It's called leading. It's called I'm a grown man and I don't go around looking for free handouts. It's a mindset and an attitude. Its taking pride in what it means to be a man. That is clearly lost on today's generation.
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_sideways_
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Tell her they are cutting your hours at work and would love to go for a hike and coffee instead of bars and restaurants.
If gaining money is what you want.
See her reaction.
If gaining money is what you want.
See her reaction.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.