"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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getting drunk has its benefits...and drawbacks

ValleyDJing

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So I got drunk of my ass last night. I sort of called a bunch of girls and basically told them straight up what I wanted to do to them. One girl I called like 5 times (or so I'm told) and told her how I wanted to bang her, how hott she was, etc. Same or slightly varied stories with about 5 other chicks too! :crackup: whoops! hehe! anyways, some of these girls I didn't even have their numbers...my drunk friends provided those. I did know all of them personally though, but what do you think the reprecussions of my actions will be? Did I totally **** myself over or what? Advice on how to handle the aftermath of this situation?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If they say anything say you were drunk. If you see any of them, tell them you were drunk. Dont do sh*t like that, control your desperation.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
If they say anything say you were drunk. If you see any of them, tell them you were drunk. Dont do sh*t like that, control your desperation.
oh believe me, there was no mistaking that I was drunk. and i did tell them that like first thing before i said any of that other stupid ****. I couldn't control myself i was that far gone. plus it didn't help that my friends were encouraging me. haha!
 

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ValleyDJing said:
oh believe me, there was no mistaking that I was drunk. and i did tell them that like first thing before i said any of that other stupid ****. I couldn't control myself i was that far gone. plus it didn't help that my friends were encouraging me. haha!
Then it doesnt matter. You dont have anything to worry aboot...cheeeers :up:
 

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They know what it's like to be drunk (or if the don't they will soon), they know you weren't yourself and so they'll forget about it soon.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
 

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^lol^

Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
^ lol Good $hit!
 

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Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
LOL!!!!!!
 

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Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
:crackup:
 

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I know lot's of people that have done this, and they were all basically ****ed afterward. You will not be able to hook up with those girls, and possibly not their friends. You can try, but from what I've seen, you will fail.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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