"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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getting drunk has its benefits...and drawbacks

ValleyDJing

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So I got drunk of my ass last night. I sort of called a bunch of girls and basically told them straight up what I wanted to do to them. One girl I called like 5 times (or so I'm told) and told her how I wanted to bang her, how hott she was, etc. Same or slightly varied stories with about 5 other chicks too! :crackup: whoops! hehe! anyways, some of these girls I didn't even have their numbers...my drunk friends provided those. I did know all of them personally though, but what do you think the reprecussions of my actions will be? Did I totally **** myself over or what? Advice on how to handle the aftermath of this situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If they say anything say you were drunk. If you see any of them, tell them you were drunk. Dont do sh*t like that, control your desperation.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
If they say anything say you were drunk. If you see any of them, tell them you were drunk. Dont do sh*t like that, control your desperation.
oh believe me, there was no mistaking that I was drunk. and i did tell them that like first thing before i said any of that other stupid ****. I couldn't control myself i was that far gone. plus it didn't help that my friends were encouraging me. haha!
 

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ValleyDJing said:
oh believe me, there was no mistaking that I was drunk. and i did tell them that like first thing before i said any of that other stupid ****. I couldn't control myself i was that far gone. plus it didn't help that my friends were encouraging me. haha!
Then it doesnt matter. You dont have anything to worry aboot...cheeeers :up:
 

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They know what it's like to be drunk (or if the don't they will soon), they know you weren't yourself and so they'll forget about it soon.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
 

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^lol^

Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
^ lol Good $hit!
 

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Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
LOL!!!!!!
 

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Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
:crackup:
 

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I know lot's of people that have done this, and they were all basically ****ed afterward. You will not be able to hook up with those girls, and possibly not their friends. You can try, but from what I've seen, you will fail.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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