"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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getting drunk has its benefits...and drawbacks

ValleyDJing

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So I got drunk of my ass last night. I sort of called a bunch of girls and basically told them straight up what I wanted to do to them. One girl I called like 5 times (or so I'm told) and told her how I wanted to bang her, how hott she was, etc. Same or slightly varied stories with about 5 other chicks too! :crackup: whoops! hehe! anyways, some of these girls I didn't even have their numbers...my drunk friends provided those. I did know all of them personally though, but what do you think the reprecussions of my actions will be? Did I totally **** myself over or what? Advice on how to handle the aftermath of this situation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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If they say anything say you were drunk. If you see any of them, tell them you were drunk. Dont do sh*t like that, control your desperation.
 

ValleyDJing

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oakraiderz2 said:
If they say anything say you were drunk. If you see any of them, tell them you were drunk. Dont do sh*t like that, control your desperation.
oh believe me, there was no mistaking that I was drunk. and i did tell them that like first thing before i said any of that other stupid ****. I couldn't control myself i was that far gone. plus it didn't help that my friends were encouraging me. haha!
 

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ValleyDJing said:
oh believe me, there was no mistaking that I was drunk. and i did tell them that like first thing before i said any of that other stupid ****. I couldn't control myself i was that far gone. plus it didn't help that my friends were encouraging me. haha!
Then it doesnt matter. You dont have anything to worry aboot...cheeeers :up:
 

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They know what it's like to be drunk (or if the don't they will soon), they know you weren't yourself and so they'll forget about it soon.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
 

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^lol^

Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
^ lol Good $hit!
 

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Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
LOL!!!!!!
 

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Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
:crackup:
 

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I know lot's of people that have done this, and they were all basically ****ed afterward. You will not be able to hook up with those girls, and possibly not their friends. You can try, but from what I've seen, you will fail.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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