Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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getting drunk has its benefits...and drawbacks

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So I got drunk of my ass last night. I sort of called a bunch of girls and basically told them straight up what I wanted to do to them. One girl I called like 5 times (or so I'm told) and told her how I wanted to bang her, how hott she was, etc. Same or slightly varied stories with about 5 other chicks too! :crackup: whoops! hehe! anyways, some of these girls I didn't even have their numbers...my drunk friends provided those. I did know all of them personally though, but what do you think the reprecussions of my actions will be? Did I totally **** myself over or what? Advice on how to handle the aftermath of this situation?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If they say anything say you were drunk. If you see any of them, tell them you were drunk. Dont do sh*t like that, control your desperation.
 
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oakraiderz2 said:
If they say anything say you were drunk. If you see any of them, tell them you were drunk. Dont do sh*t like that, control your desperation.
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oh believe me, there was no mistaking that I was drunk. and i did tell them that like first thing before i said any of that other stupid ****. I couldn't control myself i was that far gone. plus it didn't help that my friends were encouraging me. haha!
 
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ValleyDJing said:
oh believe me, there was no mistaking that I was drunk. and i did tell them that like first thing before i said any of that other stupid ****. I couldn't control myself i was that far gone. plus it didn't help that my friends were encouraging me. haha!
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Then it doesnt matter. You dont have anything to worry aboot...cheeeers :up:
 
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They know what it's like to be drunk (or if the don't they will soon), they know you weren't yourself and so they'll forget about it soon.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
 
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^lol^

Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
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^ lol Good $hit!
 
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Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
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LOL!!!!!!
 
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Steg said:
Been there done that, one girl thought it made us closerr (actually her name was like at the top of my phone list and so all I could dial).
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:crackup:
 
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I know lot's of people that have done this, and they were all basically ****ed afterward. You will not be able to hook up with those girls, and possibly not their friends. You can try, but from what I've seen, you will fail.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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