Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
true that, Francisco.Francisco d'Anconia said:The game is difficult either when you don't know the rules, don't know how to play or don't know how to score. Being out on the court running around in circles doesn't do you any good.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
If you shop for 'generic quality' guess what you will find when you open the package?Scought said:...The point is I will just aim higher.
I wonder if this is similar to guys who masterbate all of the time.KoalaKing said:I spent years living in severe depression because I couldn't seduce any hot babes and now that I have learnt how to seduce them I quickly become bored with them.
To me hot babes relationships and sex are highly overated, after you have fvcked a few hot babes it becomes a dreaded bore.....
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I masturbated continuously every morning and night in my younger days, I found that my masturbation fantasies were far more enjoyable than fvcking hot babes in real life.Francisco d'Anconia said:I wonder if this is similar to guys who masterbate all of the time.
Interesting. I would have first guessed that you would have gotten bored with masturbating too. But you brought up the point of the possible reason for the amount of right hand love that you had, your idea of a hot woman was not readily available in your real life so you relied on fantasy. Now the question is whether or not you can somehow augment your perception of women in real life to what you perceive in fantasy.KoalaKing said:I masturbated continuously every morning and night in my younger days, I found that my masturbation fantasies were far more enjoyable than fvcking hot babes in real life.
The strange thing is very few girls are hot enough to keep me interested for a long period, fantasy seems to beat reality. :crazy: