When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
true that, Francisco.Francisco d'Anconia said:The game is difficult either when you don't know the rules, don't know how to play or don't know how to score. Being out on the court running around in circles doesn't do you any good.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you shop for 'generic quality' guess what you will find when you open the package?Scought said:...The point is I will just aim higher.
I wonder if this is similar to guys who masterbate all of the time.KoalaKing said:I spent years living in severe depression because I couldn't seduce any hot babes and now that I have learnt how to seduce them I quickly become bored with them.
To me hot babes relationships and sex are highly overated, after you have fvcked a few hot babes it becomes a dreaded bore.....
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I masturbated continuously every morning and night in my younger days, I found that my masturbation fantasies were far more enjoyable than fvcking hot babes in real life.Francisco d'Anconia said:I wonder if this is similar to guys who masterbate all of the time.
Interesting. I would have first guessed that you would have gotten bored with masturbating too. But you brought up the point of the possible reason for the amount of right hand love that you had, your idea of a hot woman was not readily available in your real life so you relied on fantasy. Now the question is whether or not you can somehow augment your perception of women in real life to what you perceive in fantasy.KoalaKing said:I masturbated continuously every morning and night in my younger days, I found that my masturbation fantasies were far more enjoyable than fvcking hot babes in real life.
The strange thing is very few girls are hot enough to keep me interested for a long period, fantasy seems to beat reality. :crazy: