"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Getting bored quickly with (new) women.

comic_relief

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 29, 2004
Messages
3,282
Reaction score
49
Location
Baltimore, MD
Francisco d'Anconia said:
The game is difficult either when you don't know the rules, don't know how to play or don't know how to score. Being out on the court running around in circles doesn't do you any good.
true that, Francisco.

I was always frustrated about love and sexuality until I learned to play the game at 15. It was like night and day. I'm lucky that I found this website long ago.

comic_relief
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Scought

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2003
Messages
265
Reaction score
2
Location
Portland
Good grief guys...I am not "messed up" rather I just find most women to be boring after it gets to a certain point.

Nothing more, nothing less.

The point is I will just aim higher.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Scought said:
...The point is I will just aim higher.
If you shop for 'generic quality' guess what you will find when you open the package?
 

KoalaKing

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 5, 2006
Messages
427
Reaction score
3
I spent years living in severe depression because I couldn't seduce any hot babes and now that I have learnt how to seduce them I quickly become bored with them.
To me hot babes relationships and sex are highly overated, after you have fvcked a few hot babes it becomes a dreaded bore.
These days I wished that I had the mind and body of an adult but the sexual desires of a child, being attracted to females torments me regardless of if I am fvcking them or not, they just create other problems that I don't need if they are attracted to me, it is a lose lose situation.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
KoalaKing said:
I spent years living in severe depression because I couldn't seduce any hot babes and now that I have learnt how to seduce them I quickly become bored with them.
To me hot babes relationships and sex are highly overated, after you have fvcked a few hot babes it becomes a dreaded bore.....
I wonder if this is similar to guys who masterbate all of the time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

KoalaKing

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 5, 2006
Messages
427
Reaction score
3
Francisco d'Anconia said:
I wonder if this is similar to guys who masterbate all of the time.
I masturbated continuously every morning and night in my younger days, I found that my masturbation fantasies were far more enjoyable than fvcking hot babes in real life.
The strange thing is very few girls are hot enough to keep me interested for a long period, fantasy seems to beat reality. :crazy:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
KoalaKing said:
I masturbated continuously every morning and night in my younger days, I found that my masturbation fantasies were far more enjoyable than fvcking hot babes in real life.
The strange thing is very few girls are hot enough to keep me interested for a long period, fantasy seems to beat reality. :crazy:
Interesting. I would have first guessed that you would have gotten bored with masturbating too. But you brought up the point of the possible reason for the amount of right hand love that you had, your idea of a hot woman was not readily available in your real life so you relied on fantasy. Now the question is whether or not you can somehow augment your perception of women in real life to what you perceive in fantasy.
 
Top