"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting bored quickly with (new) women.

comic_relief

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
The game is difficult either when you don't know the rules, don't know how to play or don't know how to score. Being out on the court running around in circles doesn't do you any good.
true that, Francisco.

I was always frustrated about love and sexuality until I learned to play the game at 15. It was like night and day. I'm lucky that I found this website long ago.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scought

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Good grief guys...I am not "messed up" rather I just find most women to be boring after it gets to a certain point.

Nothing more, nothing less.

The point is I will just aim higher.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Scought said:
...The point is I will just aim higher.
If you shop for 'generic quality' guess what you will find when you open the package?
 

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I spent years living in severe depression because I couldn't seduce any hot babes and now that I have learnt how to seduce them I quickly become bored with them.
To me hot babes relationships and sex are highly overated, after you have fvcked a few hot babes it becomes a dreaded bore.
These days I wished that I had the mind and body of an adult but the sexual desires of a child, being attracted to females torments me regardless of if I am fvcking them or not, they just create other problems that I don't need if they are attracted to me, it is a lose lose situation.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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KoalaKing said:
I spent years living in severe depression because I couldn't seduce any hot babes and now that I have learnt how to seduce them I quickly become bored with them.
To me hot babes relationships and sex are highly overated, after you have fvcked a few hot babes it becomes a dreaded bore.....
I wonder if this is similar to guys who masterbate all of the time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I wonder if this is similar to guys who masterbate all of the time.
I masturbated continuously every morning and night in my younger days, I found that my masturbation fantasies were far more enjoyable than fvcking hot babes in real life.
The strange thing is very few girls are hot enough to keep me interested for a long period, fantasy seems to beat reality. :crazy:
 

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KoalaKing said:
I masturbated continuously every morning and night in my younger days, I found that my masturbation fantasies were far more enjoyable than fvcking hot babes in real life.
The strange thing is very few girls are hot enough to keep me interested for a long period, fantasy seems to beat reality. :crazy:
Interesting. I would have first guessed that you would have gotten bored with masturbating too. But you brought up the point of the possible reason for the amount of right hand love that you had, your idea of a hot woman was not readily available in your real life so you relied on fantasy. Now the question is whether or not you can somehow augment your perception of women in real life to what you perceive in fantasy.
 
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