When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
true that, Francisco.Francisco d'Anconia said:The game is difficult either when you don't know the rules, don't know how to play or don't know how to score. Being out on the court running around in circles doesn't do you any good.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If you shop for 'generic quality' guess what you will find when you open the package?Scought said:...The point is I will just aim higher.
I wonder if this is similar to guys who masterbate all of the time.KoalaKing said:I spent years living in severe depression because I couldn't seduce any hot babes and now that I have learnt how to seduce them I quickly become bored with them.
To me hot babes relationships and sex are highly overated, after you have fvcked a few hot babes it becomes a dreaded bore.....
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I masturbated continuously every morning and night in my younger days, I found that my masturbation fantasies were far more enjoyable than fvcking hot babes in real life.Francisco d'Anconia said:I wonder if this is similar to guys who masterbate all of the time.
Interesting. I would have first guessed that you would have gotten bored with masturbating too. But you brought up the point of the possible reason for the amount of right hand love that you had, your idea of a hot woman was not readily available in your real life so you relied on fantasy. Now the question is whether or not you can somehow augment your perception of women in real life to what you perceive in fantasy.KoalaKing said:I masturbated continuously every morning and night in my younger days, I found that my masturbation fantasies were far more enjoyable than fvcking hot babes in real life.
The strange thing is very few girls are hot enough to keep me interested for a long period, fantasy seems to beat reality. :crazy: