Hey guys I just wanted your thoughts on this. Say you hit it off with a girl at a party or something but you didn't get her number for some random reason, is it acceptable to ask your friend for it and call her or is that sort of stalkerish?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Getting a number through a friend
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Be a man and ask for the number yourself. It will seem creepy if you call the girl and she asks you how you got her #. Girls want men not wussies. Specially if her friend happens to be a female. Never ask for help from another woman about any sort of dating issue.
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I'd say no unless you're completely sure you're never going to see her again (which doesn't seem to be the case). Even if you won't, though, you still have a good chance of looking creepy.
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You want to ask your friend for the girl's #? The answer is;
In English: No!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell naw!
In my world: F**K NO!
You must strike while the iron is hot.
You failed.
Asking a guy friend for the # shows that you have no balls.
Asking a girl friend for the # shows that you have a vagina.
And never ever ask a woman about dating.
Point. Blank. Period.
In English: No!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell naw!
In my world: F**K NO!
You must strike while the iron is hot.
You failed.
Asking a guy friend for the # shows that you have no balls.
Asking a girl friend for the # shows that you have a vagina.
And never ever ask a woman about dating.
Point. Blank. Period.