Hey guys I just wanted your thoughts on this. Say you hit it off with a girl at a party or something but you didn't get her number for some random reason, is it acceptable to ask your friend for it and call her or is that sort of stalkerish?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Getting a number through a friend
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Be a man and ask for the number yourself. It will seem creepy if you call the girl and she asks you how you got her #. Girls want men not wussies. Specially if her friend happens to be a female. Never ask for help from another woman about any sort of dating issue.
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I'd say no unless you're completely sure you're never going to see her again (which doesn't seem to be the case). Even if you won't, though, you still have a good chance of looking creepy.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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You want to ask your friend for the girl's #? The answer is;
In English: No!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell naw!
In my world: F**K NO!
You must strike while the iron is hot.
You failed.
Asking a guy friend for the # shows that you have no balls.
Asking a girl friend for the # shows that you have a vagina.
And never ever ask a woman about dating.
Point. Blank. Period.
In English: No!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell naw!
In my world: F**K NO!
You must strike while the iron is hot.
You failed.
Asking a guy friend for the # shows that you have no balls.
Asking a girl friend for the # shows that you have a vagina.
And never ever ask a woman about dating.
Point. Blank. Period.