Hey guys I just wanted your thoughts on this. Say you hit it off with a girl at a party or something but you didn't get her number for some random reason, is it acceptable to ask your friend for it and call her or is that sort of stalkerish?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Getting a number through a friend
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Be a man and ask for the number yourself. It will seem creepy if you call the girl and she asks you how you got her #. Girls want men not wussies. Specially if her friend happens to be a female. Never ask for help from another woman about any sort of dating issue.
MascaraSnake
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I'd say no unless you're completely sure you're never going to see her again (which doesn't seem to be the case). Even if you won't, though, you still have a good chance of looking creepy.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
nismo-4
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You want to ask your friend for the girl's #? The answer is;
In English: No!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell naw!
In my world: F**K NO!
You must strike while the iron is hot.
You failed.
Asking a guy friend for the # shows that you have no balls.
Asking a girl friend for the # shows that you have a vagina.
And never ever ask a woman about dating.
Point. Blank. Period.
In English: No!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell naw!
In my world: F**K NO!
You must strike while the iron is hot.
You failed.
Asking a guy friend for the # shows that you have no balls.
Asking a girl friend for the # shows that you have a vagina.
And never ever ask a woman about dating.
Point. Blank. Period.