"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting a girl to send naked pics

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Hi guys, need a bit of advice on this one.

I've just persuaded my gf to send me naked photos of herself via a joint email account for the first time. She's cooperated after some persuading, which I'm impressed by. She was a virgin before we slept together (at least so she claims, she was definitely very inexperienced), so she's gone from no sexual experience to naked photos in 6 months or so. That's pretty cool.

Here's the problem. She wants naked photos of me as well. I'm not particularly comfortable with this, as I'm realistic to know that we'll probably break up in the next few months/ a year or so. It will almost certainly be me who ends it, as she's always been more into me than the other way round. She will likely end up hating my guts at some point in the future (sad but true), and I don't want my career to be compromised.

I know some of the older guys on here have got plenty of experience with naked photos, what's your standard response to this conundrum?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Upside

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DON'T!

On the off chance you gain high status and fame in the world, that **** pic will (probably) be used against you and "leaked." Do you really want to take that chance for a short-term, overt sexual gesture?
 
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eh i've sent out a few wang shots as long as your face isn't in the picture and as long as you have full body nudes of her she wont do anything
 
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I send c0ck shots all the time. Nothing with your face in it you're good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what if its just a pic of ur member...or even a body shot without a face...not really incriminating...also you could tell her you sent it and then just be like ... ooops guess the text never went through...that way you get her pic and never send anything in return
 
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