"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting a girl to send naked pics

OnTheWayUp

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Hi guys, need a bit of advice on this one.

I've just persuaded my gf to send me naked photos of herself via a joint email account for the first time. She's cooperated after some persuading, which I'm impressed by. She was a virgin before we slept together (at least so she claims, she was definitely very inexperienced), so she's gone from no sexual experience to naked photos in 6 months or so. That's pretty cool.

Here's the problem. She wants naked photos of me as well. I'm not particularly comfortable with this, as I'm realistic to know that we'll probably break up in the next few months/ a year or so. It will almost certainly be me who ends it, as she's always been more into me than the other way round. She will likely end up hating my guts at some point in the future (sad but true), and I don't want my career to be compromised.

I know some of the older guys on here have got plenty of experience with naked photos, what's your standard response to this conundrum?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Upside

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DON'T!

On the off chance you gain high status and fame in the world, that **** pic will (probably) be used against you and "leaked." Do you really want to take that chance for a short-term, overt sexual gesture?
 

wataf

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eh i've sent out a few wang shots as long as your face isn't in the picture and as long as you have full body nudes of her she wont do anything
 

JumpOff

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I send c0ck shots all the time. Nothing with your face in it you're good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In10se

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what if its just a pic of ur member...or even a body shot without a face...not really incriminating...also you could tell her you sent it and then just be like ... ooops guess the text never went through...that way you get her pic and never send anything in return
 
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