"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting a girl to send naked pics

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OnTheWayUp

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Hi guys, need a bit of advice on this one.

I've just persuaded my gf to send me naked photos of herself via a joint email account for the first time. She's cooperated after some persuading, which I'm impressed by. She was a virgin before we slept together (at least so she claims, she was definitely very inexperienced), so she's gone from no sexual experience to naked photos in 6 months or so. That's pretty cool.

Here's the problem. She wants naked photos of me as well. I'm not particularly comfortable with this, as I'm realistic to know that we'll probably break up in the next few months/ a year or so. It will almost certainly be me who ends it, as she's always been more into me than the other way round. She will likely end up hating my guts at some point in the future (sad but true), and I don't want my career to be compromised.

I know some of the older guys on here have got plenty of experience with naked photos, what's your standard response to this conundrum?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Upside

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DON'T!

On the off chance you gain high status and fame in the world, that **** pic will (probably) be used against you and "leaked." Do you really want to take that chance for a short-term, overt sexual gesture?
 
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eh i've sent out a few wang shots as long as your face isn't in the picture and as long as you have full body nudes of her she wont do anything
 
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I send c0ck shots all the time. Nothing with your face in it you're good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In10se

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what if its just a pic of ur member...or even a body shot without a face...not really incriminating...also you could tell her you sent it and then just be like ... ooops guess the text never went through...that way you get her pic and never send anything in return
 
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