"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gettin a girl by going through her friend?

cyjay201

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Alrite I met a HB through a good girl friend of mine. She seriously is about a 9.5, first signs were good. I introduced myself with confidence, made eye contact with her, gave her the more personal handshake and smiled a lot. She gave some signs of attraction but it's still a work in progress.

Anyway here's my question, the only time I'll ever see her is if I go through her friend. The next time I'm thinkin about asking for her #, I know it's not gonna be easy but has any DJ's on this site done this before? If so what should I watch out for.

P.S. I'm currently seeing two other girls from different areas. So it's not like she's my main focus.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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had pretty much the exact same thing going on last year. keep up what your doin as far as confidence and other attributes go, just dont flood your friend with talk about her because your friend will feel used and possibly bad mouth you to the other girl. check out theonedude's thread and read his 3 rules, you might be able to get some more advice on what your looking for.
 

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Originally posted by Osiris7250
had pretty much the exact same thing going on last year. keep up what your doin as far as confidence and other attributes go, just dont flood your friend with talk about her because your friend will feel used and possibly bad mouth you to the other girl. check out theonedude's thread and read his 3 rules, you might be able to get some more advice on what your looking for.
Alrite thanks.
 

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If you are interested, definitely ask for her number asap. Eliminating the usage of a middleman will help the relationship.
 

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Originally posted by California Love
If you are interested, definitely ask for her number asap. Eliminating the usage of a middleman will help the relationship.
Yeah that's the problem, I only see her when she's with my friend. I'm not sure when I'll have the time to ask for the digits, but if I feel like doing it I probably will act.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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