Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Gettin a girl by going through her friend?

cyjay201

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Alrite I met a HB through a good girl friend of mine. She seriously is about a 9.5, first signs were good. I introduced myself with confidence, made eye contact with her, gave her the more personal handshake and smiled a lot. She gave some signs of attraction but it's still a work in progress.

Anyway here's my question, the only time I'll ever see her is if I go through her friend. The next time I'm thinkin about asking for her #, I know it's not gonna be easy but has any DJ's on this site done this before? If so what should I watch out for.

P.S. I'm currently seeing two other girls from different areas. So it's not like she's my main focus.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Osiris7250

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had pretty much the exact same thing going on last year. keep up what your doin as far as confidence and other attributes go, just dont flood your friend with talk about her because your friend will feel used and possibly bad mouth you to the other girl. check out theonedude's thread and read his 3 rules, you might be able to get some more advice on what your looking for.
 

cyjay201

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Originally posted by Osiris7250
had pretty much the exact same thing going on last year. keep up what your doin as far as confidence and other attributes go, just dont flood your friend with talk about her because your friend will feel used and possibly bad mouth you to the other girl. check out theonedude's thread and read his 3 rules, you might be able to get some more advice on what your looking for.
Alrite thanks.
 

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If you are interested, definitely ask for her number asap. Eliminating the usage of a middleman will help the relationship.
 

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Originally posted by California Love
If you are interested, definitely ask for her number asap. Eliminating the usage of a middleman will help the relationship.
Yeah that's the problem, I only see her when she's with my friend. I'm not sure when I'll have the time to ask for the digits, but if I feel like doing it I probably will act.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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