"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gettin a girl by going through her friend?

cyjay201

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Alrite I met a HB through a good girl friend of mine. She seriously is about a 9.5, first signs were good. I introduced myself with confidence, made eye contact with her, gave her the more personal handshake and smiled a lot. She gave some signs of attraction but it's still a work in progress.

Anyway here's my question, the only time I'll ever see her is if I go through her friend. The next time I'm thinkin about asking for her #, I know it's not gonna be easy but has any DJ's on this site done this before? If so what should I watch out for.

P.S. I'm currently seeing two other girls from different areas. So it's not like she's my main focus.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Osiris7250

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had pretty much the exact same thing going on last year. keep up what your doin as far as confidence and other attributes go, just dont flood your friend with talk about her because your friend will feel used and possibly bad mouth you to the other girl. check out theonedude's thread and read his 3 rules, you might be able to get some more advice on what your looking for.
 

cyjay201

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Originally posted by Osiris7250
had pretty much the exact same thing going on last year. keep up what your doin as far as confidence and other attributes go, just dont flood your friend with talk about her because your friend will feel used and possibly bad mouth you to the other girl. check out theonedude's thread and read his 3 rules, you might be able to get some more advice on what your looking for.
Alrite thanks.
 

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If you are interested, definitely ask for her number asap. Eliminating the usage of a middleman will help the relationship.
 

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Originally posted by California Love
If you are interested, definitely ask for her number asap. Eliminating the usage of a middleman will help the relationship.
Yeah that's the problem, I only see her when she's with my friend. I'm not sure when I'll have the time to ask for the digits, but if I feel like doing it I probably will act.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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