"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Get yourself a hat

toom

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There's nothing like a bonnet to help you chat up the ladies, (not sure if there is something about this anywhere else on the forum) I bought a tatty panama on which I stuck some silly pattern and when I go clubbing, I usually get at least one girl come up and ask/demand to wear it. To which i reply with something stupid like 'well I usually issue coupons for a little hat time etc.' blah blah,waffle

I think a panama works well because it's got a sophisticated feel to it and is not as common as the caps/trilby/beanies that you see all over trendie indie places in the u.k at the moment. However it looks best with longish hair as a final note.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jerky Boi

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Good tip. I've also found besides wearing hats that if you wear a tie, a lot of women have asked me if they could wear that too. The only reason I ever wear ties to parties is that I get off real late at night and I don't feel like changing.
 

Mission

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i wear my cowboy hat. it pretty much does all the gaming for me.

--Mission
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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