"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get yourself a hat

toom

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There's nothing like a bonnet to help you chat up the ladies, (not sure if there is something about this anywhere else on the forum) I bought a tatty panama on which I stuck some silly pattern and when I go clubbing, I usually get at least one girl come up and ask/demand to wear it. To which i reply with something stupid like 'well I usually issue coupons for a little hat time etc.' blah blah,waffle

I think a panama works well because it's got a sophisticated feel to it and is not as common as the caps/trilby/beanies that you see all over trendie indie places in the u.k at the moment. However it looks best with longish hair as a final note.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jerky Boi

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Good tip. I've also found besides wearing hats that if you wear a tie, a lot of women have asked me if they could wear that too. The only reason I ever wear ties to parties is that I get off real late at night and I don't feel like changing.
 

Mission

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i wear my cowboy hat. it pretty much does all the gaming for me.

--Mission
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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