"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Get yourself a hat

toom

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There's nothing like a bonnet to help you chat up the ladies, (not sure if there is something about this anywhere else on the forum) I bought a tatty panama on which I stuck some silly pattern and when I go clubbing, I usually get at least one girl come up and ask/demand to wear it. To which i reply with something stupid like 'well I usually issue coupons for a little hat time etc.' blah blah,waffle

I think a panama works well because it's got a sophisticated feel to it and is not as common as the caps/trilby/beanies that you see all over trendie indie places in the u.k at the moment. However it looks best with longish hair as a final note.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jerky Boi

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Good tip. I've also found besides wearing hats that if you wear a tie, a lot of women have asked me if they could wear that too. The only reason I ever wear ties to parties is that I get off real late at night and I don't feel like changing.
 

Mission

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i wear my cowboy hat. it pretty much does all the gaming for me.

--Mission
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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