WTF is this carp? You people run a real dj -- pimpin -- off the board for, what, supposedly posting "fake" stories (what evidence did anyone ever bring?) but you tolerate totally irrelevant blather like this? Lol.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why are you sticking up for these losers who have been banned, all you do is fvcking complain and attack every other dude who is against these people.danielzxc said:So now I'M a troll? Lol. That accusation seems to be last refuge of a scoundrel! (I wonder what conclusion a careful comparison of our respective posts would suggest; am I the more likely troll or would that be yourself?)
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Do you expect to marry a virgin ages 30-40?Last Man Standing said:d99, Yes, some women have been abused and raped in their childhood and this creates a monster - I don't blame the woman for such atrocities -- the men should be put to death who abuse children!!! Society is "messed up" and it is encouraged and worsened by those who control the media and it's messages and content!! There is a sick agenda here!! I blame my generation who created this mess!!! We are the original monsters!!
Does anybody else have questions that they need to be answered?
No, I absolutely do not expect to marry a virgin that old -- there are none!! My ideal would be to marry a woman who has not been sexually blemished!! At this point I will not get married because I do not want to bring children into this world as it is..most women want children and I understand why....I wanted children at one time too but not now!Babnik said:Do you expect to marry a virgin ages 30-40?
Define blemished in your own terms, please.Last Man Standing said:No, I absolutely do not expect to marry a virgin that old -- there are none!! My ideal would be to marry a woman who has not been sexually blemished!! At this point I will not get married because I do not want to bring children into this world as it is..most women want children and I understand why....I wanted children at one time too but not now!
So my fate is sealed as I am now - I have no problem with my station in life - I am quite satisfied with my life! I could actually find one in another country and it will be an easy task but I must know a woman totally before I trust her and I could not do that with someone thousands of miles away!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Whoa, hold on their kid - that is a pretty deep analysis and I've been drinking!DJF or John said:Hey PRL, here's my question.
Could you make a post, talking about what you were saying a while back about Sexuality, the Duel that creates Life or something?
I want to hear that.
Let me know when you'll make it, because I need to have a cold beer ready.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Last Man Standing said:No blemishes sexually = no sexual contact with another person!!
When a woman comes into sexual contact with a man it not only changes her physical status as a woman but it also alters her mind and changes her mindset - how she thinks!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.